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A Friend of mine broke up with her boyfriends. She said the reason was hobbies. So what? a girl breaking up with her boyfriend because the guy seems to be more focused on his hobbies than on her is nothing unusual, huh? Yes, But that was no how it happened. What happened was that she could not get a long with her boyfriend because he had no hobbies at all. How about that? Weird?

Can having hobbies or not having hobbies lead to the breaking up with your couple? yes, at least for my friend. According to her, people with no hobbies will never understand how people with hobbies care about their hobbies. Therefore, people with no hobbies will think that having hobbies and doing them is a waste of time. Maybe, what they want is that their babes would spend more time with them rather than waste time doing their hobbies.

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The fact above (is it a fact?) about hobbies is really surprising. But I don’t wast to talk about hobbies and relationships. Doing hobbies, I believe , is one way of reducing stress. That’s why people are so busy with their work or activities are recommended to do their hobbies once in a while. What if a hobby can be turn into somethings profitable? That , according to another friend of mine , is a double advantage. If you have a that short of hobby, you can enjoy doing it and make money at the same time.

-Tony Hutabarat ( CnS Vol 3 No.20 November – December 2003 )

Above that all, that was a nice inspiration from CnS Magazine that i read recently. Since that, right now writing and reading is part of my hobbies. Seriously before that, i am quite lazy to doing both activities, suddenly a good sign wake me up to doing this