Should you become an immgrant?

What “immigrant” means? Immigrant is a person who comes to a country for the purpose of permanent residence. One leaves his home country to come to another which is the hopeful land. Some said it was so stupid to leave many good things to take a great illusion, while others said it was the best reward for whom was courageous.

I don’t stay at any point in between, but I have some views about this

On one hand , we have right to choose where is the best for us to live, if the country you are living can’t satisfy you, you will get the demand to find a better one where you can settle then get the better conditions for yourself, your family. Yes, why not! Why don’t we get if we can. The fact is that there are a lot of people who are from Asia, Africa, Euro… any place in the world come to and settle in some good countries (in popular) such as America, Canada, Australia…And they are really successful in their lives, they can get many good things like higher living standard, better environment, more peaceful, wealthier….that they couldn’t take from their past country.

How to say “I love you” in the sweetest way?

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I have collected these sweet words.

Please enjoy them and add some more words that you love. However, please remember that saying the word “I love you” is sometimes easy but to pass its exams is hard. Let’s practice the easier one first! Every part of me wants you, because I was made just for you!

You can fall from the sky, you can fall from a tree, but the best way to fall is in love with me… If I had the letters HRT, I can add EA to get a HEART or a U and get HURT. But I’d rather choose U and get HURT than have a HEART without U.

If your love could be a drug, then I’m willing to be addicted on it.

I opened my wallet and I find it empty, reached into my pocket and found a few coins, searched my heart and I found you! Then I realized how rich I am.

I don’t love you coz you are beautiful but you are beautiful coz I love you.

If I was asked to give up everything for anything I wanted. I wouldn’t because you are my everything and everything I’ve ever wanted

Without you my days are “Sad-day”, “Moan-day”, “Tears-day”, “Waste-day”, “Thirst-day”, “Fight-day”, and “Shatter-day”

Will you love me for the rest of my life? No, I’ll love you for the rest of mine.

If loving you is wrong, then I don’t want to be right!

If loving you is a crime. I’d like to be jailed for my whole life, in your heart.

The sun wouldn’t be red, the sea wouldn’t be blue, the stars wouldn’t be bright, I wouldn’t be happy without you.

When I don’t message you, it doesn’t mean I forgot about you. I was just giving you time to miss me.

My love for you is a journey. Starting at forever and ending at never

Dear, did it hurt when you fell from Heaven? I think, I need to call God because he has lost his most beautiful Angel.

Behind your smile, I know there are sorrows. Behind your laughter, I know there are tears. But I want you to know that, behind you is me who always care for you.

There are 12 Months in a year. 4 weeks in a month. 7 days in a week. 24 Hours in a day. But there’s only one you in a life time.

If “nothing” last forever, would you mind be my “nothing”?

My love for u is like breathing, how can I stop loving you babe

If you wanted me to forget you, I’d rather that I lost all my memories in this world, if you wanted me to leave you, I’d rather that I’m leaving this world also not going to leave you.

What I think about my “you”, Babe

            It’s been 6 months since the first time we get in touch. I can’t believe that, amazingly it’s a haft year, for me it’s really a significant long period of time to get such a good relationship with a boy who I’ve never met by face to face way. I have ever believed that how absurd it is to make it through internet, and honestly till now I still don’t change my mind, except to you. Do you remember which date it our first time exactly is and how we got to know each other? Maybe you don’t remember but I do.

            I don’t know how to say about our time but I know that’s an unforgotten time in my life. In 16th February (I took note it), that time was my final semester at university so I didn’t have to go to class daily but spend more time to stay with my computer to prepare for my graduation thesis, on that day I came to an English study web (I didn’t remember which this web is, do you?) then I got you there, thank you very much because you said “Hi” to me first, if you didn’t, we have nothing now. (I remember that you say “Hi” to me because you find my nickname was familiar to you, he he , honestly I don’t know why it could be familiar to you, but for whatever thank to that we can know each other).

What I like in you?

At that time, I was very interested in you because you are a guy has many the same hobbies to me, like raising turtle, taking photos, being online, drawing and don’t forget one important thing, learning English, it is English linking us together ( maybe it’s not a hobby but a task which we find it important). And other common things we have, that we just find out afterwards, listening to rock music (Linkin Park), going aboard (which one between us will go aboard first?), argument and what else…

However, do you know what your first nice thing that made a strong impression on me is?? It is your nice voice, at the first time we talked; did you remember I must ask you again if you are a 26+ man or a child? I really like your nice baby voiceà that’s why I call you Babe, right?

I really want to thank you because you were side by me while I was completed my thesis (you made me feel funny to relax, supported me while my report was turned back, designed the temple for my slide presentation ) –> I appreciate that.

Thank you because you shared to me your thought, your life, your work, your plan, your family, your friend and also your ex-darling –> I feel very happy whenever you can confide in me.

Thank you because you showed me your culture, your country Indonesia, your region Muslim –> I’ve ever thought that Islamite is extreme and very passive before. I couldn’t believe that there is a nice, funny and loveable Islamite as you.

And thank Goodness that Jakarta and Hanoi have the same GMT+7 so we can chat together easily everyday

            In short, I know you are not a very handsome and talent man, you are not a rich and high social status man, but you are very good-natured, kind-hearted, hard-working , optimistic, funny and smart I think. And you are a crazy fan of MU, I like the person who have a real enthusiasm. (Ohm, how so good you are! there will be many girls want to make your acquaintance if they know this)

What I dislike in you?

However, there are some things that I think they are not good in you. I told you about these things at least one time before, but frankly I find that you are still in trouble so I must repeat them. (We like to say frankly, right??)

First, you are so bad in taking care yourself. You are so skinny, I know it’s because you have trouble with your digestion and because of the heredity factors like you said before but it doesn’t mean that you can not make yourself better: you shouldn’t leave any your dinner meal too late anymore for any reason, it is really harmful for your health and your weak stomach. You should do more morning exercises and spend less time to stay with your lovely computer. Sleeping 4-5 hours per day is too few for a young man I think, please sleep more (don’t laugh; you are not a child, right? So you must know how to protect your heath)  

Second, you seem to be a too easy person, hum how to explain, I mean you shouldn’t give up your target easily. (I know that you will not agree with me or will not be pleasure to my opinion, but I just want to say what in my mind, if you want me show you some prove, please ask me ). I myself is often same as you, just want to give up my goals, my targets and turn back to easier things,  but when thinking more, I find that if I give up all of my goals I have nothing for myself. To make easy I just set up small goals , they are just very simple goals in my life but I will try not to give them up. We are simple so we do simple things.

                Anyway it’s just my own opinion it maybe right or wrong but I think you want to know my real thought, right? I think it is enough, hope that you can read it.

               Unfortunately, it’s a long time we don’t keep chatting, I don’t know why, I was busy then you are busy. Is that because of business, isn’t it? Or what reason? I already contact to you through mobile sms, yahoo, gmail but I still can’t find out the reason you don’t keep contact to me in a week. Please don’t think that I am complaining about this, I think it will be better for us if we stop chatting everyday like it was before, I just wonder what happened to you?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Eating Chocolate may have long-term health benefits

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Chocolate-loving (and eating) men are in better health than those who don’t like it, say researchers at Imperial College London and Nestle. Over five days, a group of healthy young men (half liked chocolate, half didn’t) ate the same food, plus a choice bread or chocolate. Blood and urine showed the chocolate lovers processed fatty foods better and had lower LDL (“bad”) cholesterol. So, indulging on occasion may have long-term health benefits- but researchers say, only when paired with otherwise healthy diet and lifestyle.

source : http://ur-healthylife.blogspot.com/

Agree or disagree? for me , it will be great as long you eating that chocolate combine with your “heavy” activities, hey i am eating chocolate right now, when i am posting this , want some?

What Makes a Man?

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“OMG, He’s a man for God’s sake! He’s not supposed to do that !” . How often have we heard people say like that? We were brought up with certain expectations about being a guy. Is it hard to become a man?

GET MARRIED AFTER THE AGE 30, GOOD OR BAD?

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Like usual, at age 22, one leaves school, gets a job then gets married at about 25. It will be believed that person has a peaceful and smooth life. I can not deny that sometimes i want my life will come like this way, however, if i choose this way i will loose many other good things in my life. And i always wonder what I should do? Let me give you a small comparison, after that we can choose our own way:

On one hand, you get married before the age 30; at time you are still young and strong enough to have a wonderful sex life and have babies without danger. According to Medical Scientists, it will be better for a babe if he/she is born when the mother under 30 and the father under 35. Your children will be stronger and more intelligent. At last a young couple certainly has more time to live happily together when being strong enough, that’s what everyone expects.

On the other hand, after the age 30, you have enough time for your work and your own hobbies. Your work is good that means you can earn enough money to bring a stable and sufficient life for your own family, and then you can enjoy your happy family life without worrying about finance. After a long time you live single, do anything what you want, you will find out the true value of life, then you will have more responsibility to your own family so that you will know how to make your family better.

How difficult to choose! But life means a lot of options and living means choosing.

Should You Get Married With a Foreigner

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It can be sometimes believed that “Love then Marriage”, I totally agree that Love is the most important thing in a happy marriage, however it is the fact that most of us need consider many other things beside truly love before getting married to someone. Marriage means that you decided to share your own life with your spouse and all people know how valuable of their life is, so it is very nature to consider everything carefully before making a decision . In case of getting married to a foreigner, it is more necessary to consider it from all sides.

R.I.P. OLIVE RILEY

Olive Riley in memoriam

What can i say, that she’s very encouraging a lot of people to have new spirit to starting a daily life. At her ages 108 ( yes, A Hundred and Eight ) She have a great life that God giving to her,shes start blogging at 107, Olive Riley is probably the world’s older blogger. At her last day someone posting a sad news at her Blog that She’s already passed away.

Let’s Hit The Road!

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Traveling is always fun, don’t you think? it always means experiencing something new and interesting. The Journey the sites, the people we meet, the dishes, there are so many things to look forward to in a trip. Of course, going with a bunch of pals is always fun, but going solo is no less enjoyable.

Love in any languague

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Right, we can find love everywhere because love doesn’t have any boundaries. Love happens to everybody, anytime, for any reason,in any place with any weather , to different countries with different language.

Celine Dion said in one of her songs , ” Love comes to those who believe it ‘ Hmmm… what about you? what do you think of that? Do you believe in Celine said? Do you believe in love, Believe that lobe will come to you someday, somehow?

Well since love can happen to anybody , anytime,anywhere, you’ better het yourself ready with what your’re gonna say once it happens to you.